Louise Smythe, Author at Find Love

Wedding Vows

March 9, 2012 by Louise Smythe

When it comes to wedding vows, a lot more people are choosing to write their own. Some couples find it very easy, some don’t. For those of you who are opting to write your own vows, but are having a few problems, I offer you the following tips.
Take their hands and look at their face.
Look into your partners’ eyes, take their hands. Definitely don’t look at your feet, no matter how nervous you may be. This is a special time for you both, so make it romantic. Looking into her eyes will link her to you. Taking his hands will make you forget about your feet. So take a few breaths, don’t think about your butterflies and just let your feelings flow.

Tell your partner why they are so special to you.
Speak truthfully about why you love them. You can even throw in a poem if it suits you to do so. This is a time neither of you will forget, so don’t mumble. Speak clearly and be yourself. If it is his bad hair that you love so much, say so. Don’t lie on your wedding day; you have the rest of your lives to do that. I’m kidding. Just speak your mind, tell her you love her. Say what’s in your heart, because that is what your partner loves most about you. Your heart

Make them a promise.
Now even if you don’t promise to always be home at 7pm sharp for her dinner. Or that you will always wash the car for him, after he has been fishing. Promise to be there for them in days to come, or promise to be their friend and lover. Throw in that you will be there through thick and thin. It doesn’t matter how you say it. You are at that alter to love and cherish your partner, till death do you part. So put it in your own words. Show them that you are secure and that you aren’t going to bolt at the first sign of stormy seas.
No matter how your life has been, the day you get married is a new start. Be romantic, be confident. After all, you are already past the hard part. You just have to enjoy the day, enjoy it as a couple.
With these three tips you shouldn’t go wrong. At least it will be hard to stuff up immensely. Make a happy memorable moment you both van cherish for the rest of your lives together.

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Finding Mr Right

March 9, 2012 by Louise Smythe

Finding Mr Right Many people complain about not being able to find the right person for them. This is a problem for women and men alike. It could be we are too busy, or that we are being far too picky. But in most circumstances, it is as simple as being ‘closed’ to what we see. Society today is like a beehive; hectic, squashy and fast paced. Here are a few tips, to help you find the perfect ‘Bee’ for you.

Project You.
Don’t pretend to be someone else. I know what you are thinking; it sounds like that age-old cliché everyone has heard before. But it does work. Have you ever seen a movie, where the guy wants the girl so bad he makes a huge story up about himself? And she hates him cause he lied or he was arrogant or self-centered? I know you have, we all have. We can always see the outcome for them, but we can never see it in ourselves. Did you know that when you leave the house grumpy, you attract all the grumpy people around you? Ever had a bad day go pear shaped, go from bad to worse? I’m hearing a lot of ‘Yes’.This is everything to do with your aura. What you do and how you feel affects the type of person who will be attracted to you. When you project a happy, complete persona; people with those same qualities will be attracted to you. But it works the other way too. When you are feeling incomplete and insecure; you will attract people who are the same.
Re-energize Yourself.
This will work for anyone, be they male or female. Because guys have just as many insecurities about women as women do about men. We are all floating on the same boat, but as long as we are all convinced the others are unapproachable, we wont get anywhere. So take some time for you. Take a moment to think about what you want for you. Don’t work to hard on what you want from someone else, because if you are true to yourself, the right person will be attracted to you. If you work too hard on finding someone who will complete you, you may end up with one half. That half may not be for you, you will be two halves of a person, and not a whole entity. It may sound far too new age for you by this stage, but hear me out. This can enlighten an existing relationship, re-ignite your boring job or even spark new confidence in everyday movements. Center yourself; fill your body with energy. Balancing the negative with positive takes practice, but soon your body will effortlessly balance itself. This will give you confidence, allowing you to be who you are. Focus on your goals, your life and where you want to be. You may be surprised with what you find, but it could be the key to unlocking your creative and sexual power.
Cut Your Own Canoe.
They say life is a journey, but do we all have to travel in the same way? Not in the least. I say; traverse your own path. If your path involves an airondition’d car, then embrace the keys; if you more suited to a slow walk on the grass, then kick of your shoes an enjoy it. Whatever way your journey takes you, embrace it. Don’t try to follow someone else; you may not be able to keep up. Take each day as it comes, try to leave your bedroom happy. Each day is a new start; try not to take the previous day with you to the next. This can only drag you down, and the people around you will notice. You don’t only affect yourself in life, you imprint on everyone around you. Life is but a grand web, every movement sends out vibrations. Send out good ones, and good will come back to you.

Everyone has energy, male and female, but sometimes it can be affected by our past. Maybe some event has turned your energy off.

This can also harm your present self. Practice makes perfect, so practice channeling your energies. Fill your body with energy, practice increasing that amount. It can affect your sexual appeal, making you more attractive to the opposite sex. You may notice a difference but people around you will notice. They may not know exactly what is there, but they will know. But with everything, have fun.

Don’t stress. Stress can drag you down. Alter yourself for a month. If it works, you will be better off because of it.

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Romantic Gift Baskets

March 9, 2012 by Louise Smythe

Romantic Gift Baskets

Now this is one gift you cannot go wrong with. Gift Baskets are the most versatile choices for a gift to anyone you could possibly give. You really can throw anything into one of these, like flowers, chocolates, hygiene products, beauty products (if your brave enough to endure the inevitable accusations of your opinion on whether or not you think the recipient is a filthy hag/ogre).

Hell you could throw in some actual practical items like, sunglasses a watch. To be extra romantic except with a twist you could buy an expensive bracelet or necklace and take two toilet rolls (depending on how long the jewellery box is) and hide the jewellery in the cardboard part of the toiled rolls (this is sure to get an evil eye and when they figured out there is jewellery between the toilet rolls, they will be ever so happy at the joke and at the gift).

The presentation of a gift basket is just as important as what is in it. A gift basket is a durable and practical gift in itself, because once the products that came inside the gift basket have been used, the recipient of the basket can then use it as a ornament to liven up a living area, or as a storage device, even for the purpose for which baskets were invented in the first place.

The lady can take it for a minor shopping spree, and it will add to her appearance in terms of class, as well as cutting down on her use of plastic bags, which is good for the environment. She will find it a topic of conversation to have with her friends when they meet up at the shopping centre and because it was either designed by you and decorated by a pro, or completely decorated by you (If you are a bit of an artist and a good imagination), this will increase your standings within her social circles.

Really you don’t need any special occasion to give gifts to your beloved. You could just get her a romantic gift basket, instead of what you would normally get her (most likely jewellery). It is a great cheap alternative as opposed to other more expensive gifts (jewellery), which will doubtlessly have the same effect in the end.

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Talking With Women

March 9, 2012 by Louise Smythe

Talking with Women Are you one of those men who just can talk to a beautiful woman? No matter how hard you try no words come out of you mouth or you speak so fast it sounds like your speaking gibberish. Well don’t fret you’re not alone. Have you ever imagined being able to have a stress-free and fun conversation with a woman without her thinking you’re trying too hard? Well now you can learn, with a few simple and handy tips you will be schmoozing all the pretty ladies in no time.

But first, let’s take a look at some of the things that hinder a man from successfully communication talking to a gorgeous lady.

Boring Her to Death! Not wanting to mess things up, a man will subconsciously restrict the conversation, by talking about weather, work, and sports. He will suffocate her with these questions and the next time, she will avoid him.

Never Shutting Up! Some guys will choose to talk endlessly to keep the women’s attention. This is an obvious sign of social inexperience and nervousness.

Asking Too Many Questions! There is nothing worse than suffering that awkward and embarrassing silence. A man will ask question after question to avoid this painful silence. Bombarding her with so many questions, will leave a bad impression in her mind and will turn her off immediately. Again, this shows that he is nervous and he is not a skilled communicator.

All of these things hinder a man and women communicating, thus from this moment on you will take note of the following and swear to never to do the above again.

The nervousness can be overcome with the right knowledge. Fear is a lack of knowledge and with the right strategy you will be more confident. Learning what to say with the power of persuasion, is very effective.

Picture the scene: You’re talking to a beautiful sexy woman and she seems to like you. You can tell she’s enjoying the conversation and you can feel the sexual chemistry. You know you want to make something happen, but yet you do not want to ruin what you have created. You do not want to scare her off or get rejected. To get the girl you have to give a good “REASON” to meet on a date.

When you follow up an offer (such as swapping numbers or going for a coffee) with a good reason for doing it, you’re making the decision easy for her. By using words such as “SO” and “BECAUSE” your backing up your suggestion to her. Maybe you want to meet at this nice little new place or you just want to talk about something. But say it with a smile and let it flow naturally.

There are so many different methods you can use to meet women, such as: Pickup in the park using your dog. Seduce the ladies by asking for a hand. Get in touch with your feminine side, so you can get inside hers.

I believe you get the idea. The next question is, now that you’ve got a hottie sitting down with you for a drink, what do you say now?

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Pick Up Lines

March 9, 2012 by Louise Smythe

Talking with Women
Talking with Women do’s donts and ideas to kick you off

Starting a conversation with any woman can be quite nerve wracking at times. One form of approach is using pick up lines. So going with this, u approach her unfortunately you decide to follow the advice of your friends and use one of the funny pick up lines they gave you.

You use this line, next thing u know she has walked off laughing at u.

You know you have stuffed it up by choosing the wrong approach.

The problem with using funny pick up lines is they don’t really work well, unless the woman is a little quirky. There are much more natural ways to start a conversation with a woman that takes your eye.

Instead of trying to use funny pick up lines with her, you should think of differant ways to a conversation with a woman. If you can’t think of anything to say, here are four different ways you can safely start a conversation without sounding too cheesy or tacky or chauvinistic:

1) Situational starter-

one example is if you just seen a couple get in a argument and she threw a drink on him, you could approach a woman who saw this happen who found it amusing and make a joke about their “close relationship”, but make sure she shows amusement at the incident first.

2) Complimentary pick up line-

Using corny pick up lines will get your nowhere except deflated, you can still use a compliment to start a conversation with a woman. Most will appreciate this.

Always remember though when complimenting a woman, that it should be on something other than her looks. Maybe it’s the way she’s dancing or how she is dressed. Any compliment, which is thought through properly and maybe even try say it aloud sometime, just to see how it actually comes out and if it sounds natural can be a great way to start talking to a woman.

3) Just act normal-

Just be you, Go up to a woman and introducing yourself, it is a great way to start a conversation. If you can approach her with confidence and not use the gimmicks or smart remarks other guys use, you’ll stand from the crowd by just being you. By being forward and honest, you’ll impress her with your straightforward manner as long as you’re not to sleazy or cocky.

4) Humorous method-

being funny is a great way to meet and attract women. Seduction guru David DeAngelo used this style; this proven method involves approaching a woman in a slightly arrogant manner whilst attempting to make her laugh. The reasoning behind this is to build yourself up as something she wants but that she has to earn and you will be using every opportunity to tease her. It’s a useful technique because you’re not being obvious about picking her up so therefore if something nicer appears u can put your attention that way whilst still keeping the other interested, ensuring at least one good score. All the while you’re just having a conversation where the goal is to make her or both laugh.

Sometimes funny pick up lines may make her laugh, but they’re not a great way to start a conversation with a woman. Instead of using them you should look for better ways to get her attention.

Next time you go out to meet a woman, try use one of these four methods that are described in this article. You will find they’re much more effective then using a corny pick up line.

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