Ok, so you’re pretty sure your soul mate is out there somewhere. But you haven’t met him or her yet. That isn’t necessarily a bad thing. After all you may not be ready for a relationship. You may have already met your perfect partner, but for some reason they have been detained form you.

Now you may ask, Can I be happy with someone who isn’t my soul mate? The answer is yes. Wholeheartedly, yes. There isn’t any rule that says you have to be with your true soul mate. You may have a perfect happy family with the person you are now with. Don’t sabotage happiness for the pursuit of a soul mate.

You may even be with your perfect partner, but it may not yet be clear to you. The point I am trying to make here is that there are many factors that make up our lives. And there may be so many things pushing and pulling you, that the true meaning of you’re life may not yet be open to you. But if you are still convinced that you and another are meant to be then here are a few tips as to why you may not have met them yet.

Karma. You may not believe in it, but this is something that needs to be dealt with as a matter of conscience. Have you done something that is subconsciously dragging you down? Try balancing that out and things may get better for you.

Lack of confidence. Try getting up in the morning full of positive energy. Take a risk or two during your day. I’m not telling you to try walking out in front of a bus, but do say hello to someone you wouldn’t normally. Be happy in your day and your self.

And unfinished business with someone. Do you have an old flame that you haven’t spoken to in a long time? Someone you met at a Christmas party, but didn’t take much notice of at the time? Try looking into your past. There may have been something you overlooked, that now needs to be rekindled.

Take each day as it comes. Look into the old and the new and try to lean from old mistakes. Each day is a blessing, and there is someone out there for you. Don’t give up; you just have to look a little closer.