Im not going to kid you here, there is only one way to ensure that a man will commit to you before giving them what they want (sex), and that is through marriage. If you don’t want any of those sleazy men who only want one thing from women, then the only way to warn them off is by stating your belief of no sex before marriage, as early as possible, the best time is during the first conversation you ever have with them. Many men will take this as a hint that there’s no way they are going to get to have sex with you until they make you their wife (or you make them your husband). But there are some idiots who think more with their penis then with their head or heart, and they will press on trying to get into your pants.
Pretty much if a man doesn’t get the hint then they aren’t worth it because either they didn’t really listen to you, or they just don’t care about what you say and that is a great sign of them having no respect for you or pretty much any woman. Be careful, many more successful men will begin to think that there is only thing that you want….and that is their money, so if you manage to establish a relationship with a man and he proposes to you then you must compromise on the details of such a binding almost allowing him to set all the parameters and if he wants a prenuptial agreement then for the sake of love sign the damned thing.
I don’t particularly agree with many of the tactics women use these days to force men into a commitment or just to force the man to do something they don’t want to, don’t make the mistake of being a control freak as so many women are due to the fact that they believe that it is what independent people do. Some of these tactics I have had the displeasure of encountering personally are:
Emotional Blackmail. Many women use this tactic when you are not giving them what they want. For example: he sais “Im going out to my mates place tonight ill see you in a couple of hours”. She sais “Oh but I thought we were going to stay in and watch some movies tonight” he sais “but I told you a week ago that I was going to do this today” She replies “Oh well ill be ok, at home alone. Don’t worry ill find something to do”.
Overall if you are a woman watch out for the sleaze bags…watch for the signs and you will be fine….do not be seduced…do not give into temptation…do not manipulate your prospective man, he will just want out of that situation. If you’re a man, stay strong and use your brain not your dick, what I mean by this is don’t give into her every whim especially if she is extremely independent (doesn’t allow you to do anything for her like opening a door for example).
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